How To Pleasure A Woman In Bed-Give Her An Orgasm To Remember

If you are anything like i was then you are familiar with your partner saying
"ouch ow ok thats enough" every time you go down on her
Now she begs me to.

Are you aware that women can experience different
types of orgasms and can even have multiple
orgasms?


It's true! Unfortunately, many women can
go years without an orgasm from their partner, and
we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman.
Here are some tips to increase the chances she'll
reach climax, including the secret to multiple
orgasms:

1. Don't start in the bedroom - Want to increase the
chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you
surprised her with a little drawing, letter or
flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or
not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women
on because love and lovemaking are interconnected
in a woman's brain. Do this and you can
bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than
just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

2. Relax her - It's hard for women to orgasm if
they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.
Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away
the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina - Do you know that prolonged
foreplay actually increases the chances of her
coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you'll build the sexual
tension and often the anticipation will be very
powerful.

4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention
on the woman first, you'll make love to her much
more passionately. Think about it! If you've
finished first and decide to help her come, you
won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed
to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to
help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best
way I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normal
and when you feel like you're about to come, simply
move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a
hula hoop) and wait until the "little guys" subside
again. Now continue pleasuring. :D

6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural
lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned
on. By using a product substitute, you're only
fooling yourself. Without products, you'll
instantly know if things are working; but with
them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once
you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a
little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from
further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making
this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully
stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,
whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a
zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is
located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the
topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There
are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With
your fingers by doing a "come here" motion or with
a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are
made equal. The best one for women is the reverse
missionary (woman on top). This is probably the
easiest position for a woman to climax because she
can control the friction to her clitoris and/or
G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex ­ The single best way to help a
woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by
going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I
didn't believe it, countless studies have been done
to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much
more satisfying for women than intercourse is.
Try the ABC's with your tongue, ask what she likes,
and mix it up with lots of different movements!

However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything
there is to know before poking your tongue around
there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even
worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using
right away to give women the most earth-shattering
experience of their lives.

 

How to Pleasure Yourself: Self Pleasure Tips for Beginners

Tips and advice to make sex with your favorite person even better: a how-to masturbation guide.

It doesn't matter that masturbation is the safest and possibly most satisfying sex you can have, when it comes to a ménage a moi, lots of ladies (and men) are still in the closet.  For starters, let's applaud the fact that we're not living in the Victorian era, when women were restricted from riding bicycles and horses, and some from sewing and squatting, lest they get too excited. And we don't have to visit the doctor's offices anymore just so they can use a large vibratory apparatus to calm us from "hysteria." We can also eat graham crackers and corn flakes without the knowledge that both foods were once made to stop people from having sexy time with themselves. No longer do most of us believe that masturbating will cause us to go blind, lose a limb or even lose our lives. But lots of us still see masturbation as second-tier sex, or the sex you have when you can't get the sex you want, when the truth is, if you don't know your body, how can you expect anyone else to know your body?

In the 1994 book Sex in America, the question of who puts their own hands down their own pants, was, hands down, an act that less than 50% of women admitted to doing. Today, between 45 and 80% of women have at least tried masturbation, a larger number indeed, but still, not enough of us are decorating our own closets, even if we’re hiding in them. Bringing Sexy Back: 5 Ways To Increase Female Libido In Marriage
That means it's time to rub the 'shun' out of masturbation. It's time to shout from the rooftops that we masturbate and we love it! We love it, or should love it, because masturbation, and orgasms, can help relieve menstrual cramps and migraines, improve your skin tone, help you fall asleep faster, increase your desire for more orgasms, and can even make you multi-orgasmic. The 91-year-old actor Ernest Borgnine praised masturbating "a lot" as the key to staying young, and 78-year-old masturbation maven Betty Dodson is still as saucy and sexy as ever thanks, in part, to her Hitachi Magic Wand.  Even Britney Spears and Madonna haven't shied away from talking—and simulating—masturbation, so let's lower a hand (or a sex toy) and join the wank-off wagon!

Tips and advice to make sex with your favorite person even better: a how-to masturbation guide.

Women may get the "short end of the stick," when it comes to jilling off, but just because we don't have a dangling participle doesn't mean masturbation isn't the bomb. The clitoris is your best bud, and it's the only organ in the human body designed exclusively for pleasure. With somewhere between 6,000 and 8,000 nerve endings (if you're keeping score, that's almost double the amount of nerve endings in a penis), you can get a lot of feeling out of your clit. Just be gentle at first. Instead of going directly for the head, rub the shaft. Massage the hood. Turn it on slowly and gently. Insert a finger or two into your vagina if you like the feeling of something inside of you when you masturbate. That's where you'll find the G-spot.

The G-spot isn't actually a spot, it's more of a cluster, and after you're aroused you should insert one or two fingers into the vagina, and massage the top wall of the vagina with the tips of your fingers. The G-spot is actually the urethral sponge, so even though you're massaging the vagina, you're technically aiming for a place beyond what you can touch. Go in an inch or two to find the G-spot. Bend your fingers in a "come over here" motion. Move further back on that top wall and massage the cluster, or the spot known as the A-spot. That's where women should go if they're trying to ejaculate. Ejaculation is fun, it's a great release, and no it's not urine, but it's not necessary to ejaculate to have a mind-blowing orgasm so don't feel you have to do it. Next, turn your finger down and massage the perineal sponge, which is the erectile tissue between the vagina and the rectum. Some women like stimulation on the top wall better, others prefer the bottom, and some want no internal stimulation at all.  If you need clitoral stimulation to get where you need to go, you are not alone. Only 30% of women can orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so don't be shy about rubbing your own clit when you need to.

Tips and advice to make sex with your favorite person even better: a how-to masturbation guide.

So how you should rub? Try making circles around your clit. Draw the number eight around your vulva. Test out the alphabet. Use your hand like a paintbrush. Play with the shaft of your clit (check it out, just massage the clitoral hood to find it). Tap on your clit as you get closer to orgasm. Squeeze and release your PC (AKA kegel) muscles. Set the mood, listen to music, light candles, dress in something silky. Take your time. Try the shower head, or position yourself under the running water from the tub's faucet.

You can always use a sex toy. A vibrator has given loads of women their first orgasms, and vibration on your clitoris can feel spectacular. Sex toys that buzz will not make it more difficult for you to achieve great sex with a partner; in fact it can make it easier. A vibe is a great teacher tool, as are curved dildos and butt plugs. However, if you’re afraid a vibrator will desensitize your clitoris, simply stop using it and go back to your own Jackson Five.

Lube can help too. Lots of vaginas self-lubricate, but not all, and even the ones that do don't do it all the time. Women need more lube depending on the time of the month or if they're on anti-depressants or birth control. Plus, your clit and bum don’t self-lubricate, so if you're playing with them when you masturbate it's nice (or in the case of the ass, necessary) to add lube. It will make the task at hand go way smoother.